You can just see the moment when his brain tries to catch up to the discussion:

brotha.exe has stopped working

Actually these sorts of discussions between married men and unmarried men need to happen more often and on a wider scale. Married men need to talk about their marriages to young unmarried men, what is it like, what to expect from yourself and your partner, how do they make their partnerships work, etc. I feel like if they spoke about their (successful) marriages more often this would go a long way towards heading off a lot of the nonesnes that young unmarried men believe about women because tight now a lot of them are having their heads filledwith nonsense from men who are not married or not in successful marriages.