Yes! I think there is. I think plenty of non-hetero women can be, and sometimes marginalized women as well.
I grew up in a house without a father, so I was never socialized to care what men think. I didn't cater to my cousins, or uncles, and let them know. I was the oldest of three, and I was in charge of my younger brothers, and I mostly I just bossed them around until they got tired of me, and left me alone to play with my toys. As a teenager, I KNEW I was never going to have any children. I was not a Disney Princess. I had no dreams of a White Knight, or having a wedding.
When my girlfriends grew old enough to chase after boys, I eschewed all that. I remember having no patience with them. There was me and the things I liked, what I wanted to do, and how I felt. I was focused on knowing who I was, and not expending all my energy pleasing anyone whose opinion I didn't care about. I cared about my Mom, my aunties, and my grandmother, and they just let me be me.
Did I have guys try to tell me what I could and couldn't do, or be, or feel? Yeah. I disregarded all of that, because I knew they were f*cking idiots, and what could they possibly know about me, when they knew about as much about the world at 14, as I did? Which is to say absolutely nothing at all.
I do remember a brief period when I tried it though. When I was about 15, trying to be appealing to boys by doing my hair and makeup, and wearing tight clothes. I mostly just felt disgusted with myself because that was NOT me, and NOT what I wanted. It was someone else's idea of me designed to make men happy.
I have not ALWAYS been happy, but I have been at peace. I had no drama. I didn't spend all my time crying over boys the way my girlfriends did, or getting into fights over who liked who. I wasnt interested in any of it.
It turns out that the word that described me was Asexual. A word for myself that I didn't have until well into my adulthood.