Yeah, excuse me if I don't look to rich white men to tell me anything at all about race in America. They ain't never been right about race, and been on the wrong side of history since this country's inception, and how the hell would they know if it was over, since they have never been the ones on the receiving end of racism. They've been the ones on the creation end.

You don't trust the abuser to tell you that his victim is okay.