Wow!

And this becomes so much more complicated (at least in the US) when race and class is involved, as white women, for example, are able to deflect the white male violence they would be the brunt of, towards men of color, as has happened multiple times in the US.

Also some of them use white male violence, as a show of their own power ("I can get white men to harm men of color for me when they're being noncompliant.")