We live in a society now where mediocrity will not be rewarded. In the past, men like that didn’t have to try too hard because women didn’t have any choices. Mediocre men are gonna lose out unless they step up their relationship game. Women have been telling them over and over the kinds of men they want to date but these guys are so tied to the old ideas of patriarchy that they refuse to progress.

I’m also saying if you can’t make her life happier than it would be if she were single than you can’t be with her. She’s got a choice now. She’s asking herself if you will make her life better or worse.