Trust me, when you're a fat girl everybody, including their momma, and grandmama, got their mouths wide open just to heap insults or project their bullshit on you! Everything you've ever done wrong, every mistake you ever made, every time you got bullied, ignored by medical professionals, and had any medical problems you have ever had in your life, will always be attributed to your weight, and any negative stigmas that have been attached to being "over" weight.