This! If the person isn't adding value to your life, whether male or female, you don't stay and mistreat them: you leave! You go find someone that makes your life what you want that life to be, settled, happy, exciting, moral, or whatever. You don't treat someone like garbage because you think they're not bringing enough "to the table". (That attitude most especially doesn't make any sense if you chose them. They obviously offer something of value to you if you're pursuing them.)