This attitude comes across badly from every angle. The re is the idea that they want to be loved so badly that any criticism of whiteness (They don't season their food and can't dance.) is seen as them feeling hurt that they are not being universally loved by PoC.

This, once again, prioritizes white people's feelings in conversations that are not about their feelings.

There is a desperation to be seen as victims, while ironically, telling PoC that they should not have a victim mentality.