The Tate's of the world prey on the vulnerable like Nathan in order to gain followers and exploit them. They lie in wait until people like him hit the lowest point in their lives, and since too many men have never been socialized to talk out their feelings and to "man up" when they feel pain, they are especially susceptible to men like Tate, who have no actual knowledge of anything under their belt, who tell them their feelings are not the problem, other people's feelings are: the chads, the stacys, the women, the black people, transgender women, immigrants etc.