Sometimes looking nice and smelling good is a big plus. He doesn't have to be a supermodel. I'll take short, balding, and totally devoted to loving me, in a hot second! I want someone I actually like as a person, whose funny, and mindful, that I can respect, and like to spend time with them. Someone who cares about and respects other human beings (including me).

I don't want grudging acquiescence. No one likes that.