She can take all of that and shove it! And speaking as a Black woman, she can stay off my side. She cannot show me how anti-racist she is by throwing the queer community under a bus. She's not anti=racist anyway because she hasn't done a thing for my community or for racial justice.

What she has done is play the "I'm not a racist" bingo card by spending her energy performatively trying to prove to Black and Brown people that she is one of the good white people who cares while not actually doing anything. Her Christian belief system is useless and limp and does nothing but help her feel better about herself.