Omg! that’s the dumbest excuse for racism I’ve ever heard! We need to stop letting bigots control the narrative of what is and isn’t racist, because all they’re doing at this point is coming up with excuses why they’re not.

If you whisper the N* word at me, it’s still racist, no matter how quietly the word was spoken!

White People shouldn’t be allowed to define what is and isn’t racist, because all they’re gonna do is what they’re doing right now, which is excuse their own shitty behavior, by changing the definition to make themselves feel good.

I’m so sorry this happened to you.