My heart goes out ot you for this. I came to this conclusion some time ago, but its only certain types of Black women who dislike me. Most of them pay me no mind, so I didn't get much of this type of behavior. Nobody came to my house to threaten me, and most of their dislike took place behind my back.
I had my own issues with Black women and girls, but fighting wasn't much on the table. I never had a single fight in school. I was perceived as weird and a nerd but apparently not weak enough to physically bully (although that didn't mean some girls did not try to threaten it.)
Even at my old age I still get dislike though. I've long ago stopped wondering why.