Men who behave badly towards women, mess things up, for any man who approaches that woman afterward. When women reject them, instead of being angry at the women, they need to be angry about the men who hurt them, and ruined any chance they might have had to form a connection with her, because now she’s on her guard. She must protect herself from anyone else taking advantage of her.

Men who harm women, who took advantage of their trust solely for their own needs, don’t just destroy the women they hurt, they hurt the chances of any men a woman will meet in the future. He might well be the greatest man in the world, but she won’t know that, because she can never trust him, after that first betrayal.