Men need to work out among themselves how to deal with the horrific amount of bullying that occurs among adolescent boys. I've heard horror stories from some of my male friends about how they were bullied, beaten, and/or hazed, for expressing any part of their authentic selves (or simply being different). The pain and trauma of that time in their lives is very real, and thanks to Man Box culture, all of the rest of us are the ones paying for it.