Men EXPECT certain behavior from women and use all kinds of tactics to get women to comply, (like weaponized incompetence). If a woman refuses to do do what's expected of her (like have children, clean up after them, give them care) then they use shame, humiliation, bullying, coercion, and even violence or threats of violence to make women comply. This is across all cultures and takes many forms but the point is to make a woman comply with the role in which she's been cast.