It has become very obvious to me that he does not know how to deal with Black women. He just doesn't know how to treat them, or talk to them, or approach them, and I think he is genuinely puzzled. Especially the smart ones!

I've seen how he treats white women whom he he finds attractive, or unattractive. His attitude towards them is always sexual in nature, but in the circles he has always moved in, there have been very few Black women, he hasn't had a lot of experience with them, they're not his sexual type, and he honestly has no idea how he should talk to them, about them, or even how to insult them. (With Black men he has a head full of movie and TV stereotypes he can pull from. )

He's tried insulting Black women, and it just rolls right off of us, because we don't respond the way white women do. He loves a fight, but we don't approach fighting the way white women do. He has never considered us a threat, or either we're so far beneath him he never bothered to develop any strategies for dealing with us.