I'm a Black woman and I agree with her! You don't any claps for this. You have the luxury as a younger white woman to be able to overlook certain beliefs because you're not on the receiving end of them. I'm older and have no patience with being "nice" for the sake of being nice. At my age niceness doesn't interest me anymore.

I don't care how well you see yourself. White people who behave far worse than you see themselves as great people. I need to be able to trust the person I'm willing to be friends with. If I cannot trust you, we're not friends, and I will be blunt about that. You can get politeness and courtesy and that's it. (Or no interaction or acknowledgment at all.)

This ain't about liking you. This is about trusting you to fight for me and have my back when the shit goes down.

I have learned that your brand of feminism only cares and thinks about white women, and does not show up, or speak up for women like me. White feminism does not have my back and doesn't fight for me.

This ain't about like. It's about trust. She doesn't trust you. And she's right! I can't trust you either, no matter how well you think of yourself.