I'm a black, asexual, 53 year old woman, and what I want is for white men like the above named person: TO STOP SPEAKING FOR ME AND WOMEN LIKE ME!
What that fool says is absolutely nothing about me, the kind of life I've lived, or want to live! And I need this person to quit talking over women to tell them what they actually want based on what he finds palatable. I don't want to be a gotdamn "flower"!