Exactly! This has nothing to do with the patriarchy specifically. I just think that people need to have contingency plans. Anything can happen in your life that you didn’t choose. In The Witches of Eastwick, the women of that movie mentioned the three D’s: Death, Desertion, and Divorce. Talking financial dependence is okay but practically speaking, doing it is not a good life choice and that’s got nothing to do with being anti-feminist. It’s the sort of life style engaged by women who already have a lot of their own money.