Exactly! These men have relationship problems because of the weaknesses of their character, or because of unresolved trauma. I can let it slide in their twenties, but once a man has reached his mid-thirties, it’s past time for him to start working through his issues, and doing the self reflection necessary to improve as a person, and too many men find it easier to whine and complain about people not liking them, than it is is to work on improving their character.