And that is the reason you see so many disgruntled Black men online talking sh*t about Black women. They are the kind of men who are not interested in being challenged to be better people, but are seemingly content to go on being trifling and untrustworthy and then get mad when no Black woman wants to settle for that.

White men who date and marry Black women are already rebelling against the status quo that tells all of us that Black women are undateable and unloveable. He walks into that relationship with his whole chest, as much as she does, and just like the Black men who are in the same position, he is very proud to tell the whole world that this is his wife.